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Monday, December 15, 2014

A Reflection

2014 has definitely been an eventful year for me. I finally got to move in with Kris, 1,400 miles away from my family and friends, and started living my own life. I met Kelsey, one of the best friends that I've ever had in my life. I also made the transition from child to adult and it's been a scary yet exhilarating process.

I've been pushed out of my comfort zone, forced to make adult decisions and learned how to live with Kris as a couple. Needless to say, it's been a very educational year for me. I'm actually very proud of myself. The concept of living on my own, without completely depending on my parents, has always scared me. Being an adult is tough but it isn't the end of the world, like I've always imagined it to be. I've managed to survive seven and a half months away from home with minimal help from my parents. Don't get me wrong, I call them when I need their help but I try not to burden them; I want to learn how to stand on my own 2 feet completely.


Before we got married, Kris and I didn't live together. So, I was a little afraid that it would be a really hard and messy transition for us. But so far, we get along great and we've had minimal problems. I've heard conflicting things about the first year of marriage; some people say that it's the best year and some say that it's the hardest. So far, I'd say that I have to agree with the former. Kris and I make each other happy and seeing each other every day makes every day better.

Kris and I rescued Jax this year and he's brought nothing but happiness into our lives. Adopting him was one of the best decisions that we've ever made. I love coming home to him wagging his tail and jumping around. I love the way that he gets excited when we give him a treat or buy him a bone. I love how loving he is towards Kris and I. In short, I just love everything about him.


Kelsey has changed my life in a matter of a few short months. She's shown me just how important friendship can is and she's taught me the definition of true friendship. I truly feel blessed to know her and lucky to have her in my life.


With 2014 coming to a close, I felt the urge to reflect on the year. And so far, I must say, it's been pretty great!

-Chelsea

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